Remind your 16-year-old that patience, not punishment, will be taken in understanding the reasons for his refusal to attend school while offering incentives that tie to his interests. Open communication and encouraging him to help find the problem may make your son feel important and motivated.
How can I encourage my 16-year-old son to go to school? He refuses every day.
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Have an open, non-judgmental conversation to understand why your son refuses school – perhaps because of anxiety, peer pressure, or academic struggles. Show empathy, and let him know his feelings matter. Work together to address the root cause, whether it is academic support, counseling, or resolving social issues. Set small, achievable goals and celebrate his progress.
Linking school attendance to his interests, like pursuing hobbies or future career aspirations, can boost motivation. Maintain a positive environment at home, emphasizing the importance of education without pressure. Lastly, involve teachers or school counselors to create a support system tailored to his needs.